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There's Nothing I Can Do, If You Refuse To Hear Me: The Practice of Being Present In Conversations (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: @No Label Farms- Purgatory Pre-Roll Recently, I have had people listen to me talk but not hear me, or they look at me...
Ash Rae
Jul 20, 20243 min read
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Pants Are Bullshit: Embracing Authentic Connections & Meeting People Where They Are (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Fire's Blueberry OG preroll 🔥🔥 I made it a goal to write once a week, then life happened, leading to writer's block....
Ash Rae
Jul 13, 20245 min read
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Finding Ways To Stay Resilient Through the Chaos: Life Lessons From "Under The Tuscan Sun" Movie
Flavor of the Day: Terp Stix Infused Pre-Roll Honey Spoiler Alerts: This article may contain some spoilers, so if you haven't seen the...
Ash Rae
Jul 6, 20246 min read
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You Called Me Fat & Shamed Me, Now You'd Sell Your Soul To Fuck Me: Halloween Fun & Leaning On Your People (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Ray's Lemonade, Huckleberry Flavor I hope that everyone had a wonderful Halloween week (remember, this is a revisited...
Ash Rae
Jun 22, 20244 min read
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Getting Lit After a Failed Firepit: A Heartfelt Letter to My Babes 🔥💌
Flavor of the Day: Super Silver Haze To my babes, You all are my girls, my women, my Beautiful ladies I wish you could see you the way I...
Ash Rae
Jun 15, 20242 min read
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Beautiful Disaster Lit's 200th Article!!!!! Reflections of A Blogger (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Lavender Scout Master Music Vibes: Two Weeks- FKA twigs Psst.... It's my birthday on Monday! I write today amazed that...
Ash Rae
Jun 1, 20244 min read
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I Want To Be Seen, But I Want To Be Invisible. Thoughts On Being Brave (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Simply Blazed's Drty Whte Girl pre roll This saying was something I read on my Pattern App, suggested to me by my new...
Ash Rae
May 27, 20244 min read
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CapriSuns at Midnight, My Seattle Adventure To See Billie Eilish In Concert(Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Phat Panda's Haterade Pre-Roll. Music Vibes: What Was I Made For? by Billie Eilish In my life I've learned that not...
Ash Rae
Apr 29, 20245 min read
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I Feel Empowered When I Get Ready Naked Or By Wearing My Favorite Lipstick (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Damn Tasty's Runtz Pre-roll & it WAS Damn Tasty! Music Vibes: Faithfully by Journey Some days, you need to feel...
Ash Rae
Apr 22, 20244 min read
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Don't Fuck With My Feelings Just Because You're Unsure of Your Own: Navigating New Trauma (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Homegrown Grape Ape BDL tip: Women, if you want to get ready fast, no matter the reason, & still look like the...
Ash Rae
Apr 15, 20244 min read
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Letting Go Of Your Own Expectations (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Blueberry OG, a friend's homegrown. The other day, I was restless & bored, wanting to get out of the house & do...
Ash Rae
Apr 8, 20244 min read
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Reminders & Downsizing
Flavor of the Day: Tropical Trainwreck Panda Pen Little did I know how much Willow's post, https://www.beautifuldisasterlit.com/post/you-...
Ash Rae
Apr 1, 20244 min read
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Time to Tame the Raptor Claws, Finding My Confidence (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Starburst Lemonade Flamingo Gummy Time to fucking focus. No more letting anything get in my way. No fucking getting...
Ash Rae
Mar 25, 20243 min read
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I Don't Want Sand In My Vans! My Visit to Seaside, OR (Revisited)
A couple of weekends ago, Daughter and I invited one of her friends, V to take a last-minute trip to the Oregon Coast for Spring Break....
Ash Rae
Mar 18, 20248 min read
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Pendleton Whiskey Makes Her Frisky (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Blue Dream As I wrote & edited this, I sat enjoying some Alexander's Artisan Chocolates and infused tortellini with...
Ash Rae
Mar 11, 20242 min read
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Tips & Tricks for College-Bound Daughter
As I prepare Daughter (more myself) for graduation & living life on her own, creating her unique path, I think of all of the things I...
Ash Rae
Mar 4, 20244 min read
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Have Dates With Your Friends
Flavor of the Day: Forbidden Fruit Panda Pen (Panda pens are always a solid choice.) This past year, I realized the importance of having...
Ash Rae
Feb 26, 20244 min read
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I'm Too Curvy For Summer Anyways: Navigating COVID-19 (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Death Star I had a quarantine plan; take it day by day. (Little did I know how long it would last.) I set aside some...
Ash Rae
Feb 19, 20243 min read
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I'm Blunt Because God Rolled Me That Way (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Infused Reese's Brownie. When I wrote this, I had wanted to do a blog post about the coronavirus, but I honestly...
Ash Rae
Feb 12, 20243 min read
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Just Don't Spit On Yourself, Doofus (Revisited)
A little admonishment I whispered to myself, as I found myself stressing out as I was getting ready for a first date, trying to decide on...
Ash Rae
Feb 5, 20243 min read
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