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Master the Art of Laughing at Yourself (And Owning Your Mistakes)
Canna Flavor of the Day: Seattle's Private Reserve Gusherz pre-roll Music Vibes: Cher on Pandora Radio Not too long ago, I was hanging...
Ash Rae
Feb 2, 20253 min read


You Wanted Me Until I Started Loving Myself: The Year I Choose Me
Canna Flavor of the Day: Plaid Jacket's Ethiopian Sky Cuddler pre-roll Let's talk New Year resolutions. I know it's late, but life has...
Ash Rae
Jan 26, 20254 min read


I'm Done Beating Myself Up Over What I'm Not: Breaking Free From The Judgment of Others (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Vapor's Apricot Cart Music Vibes: Michael Jackson's Man in the Mirror I vow to break free from worrying about the...
Ash Rae
Oct 26, 20244 min read


Love Yourself The Way Your Best Friend Loves You (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Homegrown Girl Scout Cookies Has someone ever hurt you so much that no matter what they do, nothing can rectify...
Ash Rae
Oct 19, 20244 min read


The "Yes" Revolution: Saying "Yes" To Yourself
Flavor of the Day: Brand's Melon Gum Vape Cartridge (2024 Northwest Leaf Bowl Winner) These past four years, I have spent a lot of time...
Ash Rae
Oct 5, 20246 min read


Don't Mismanage Your Time, Energy, or Vagina: Escaping Your Trauma (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Inflorescence Turpee Slurpee pre-roll I've been an absent writer, and today I'm on a roll, so I'm guna fucking just...
Ash Rae
Sep 14, 20245 min read


The Narcissist’s Smoke Screen: Recognizing Manipulative Behavior (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: BlueCity Diesel by Raw. Side note: This article was written during the shittiest "relationship", (if you can call it...
Ash Rae
Sep 7, 20245 min read


Don't Give Me Your Heart, I'm Not Good With Those: Spotting Relationship Red Flags (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Oregon Diesel by Phat Panda If you do something for someone and throw it in their face later, you're not a nice...
Ash Rae
Aug 31, 20246 min read


Sometimes Clothes Hurt, So I Stay Naked- Life With Fibromyalgia Thus Far (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Stone Age's Alien Spacecraft pre roll Music Vibes: Low-Nerv Living with chronic pain is a life of trying to do what...
Ash Rae
Aug 10, 20244 min read


Are You Going To Make Excuses Or Are You Going To Make It Happen? (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Champagne Showerz pre roll by Silver Leaf Cannabis Co. Women have this innate urge to look at another woman & find...
Ash Rae
Aug 3, 20243 min read


There's Nothing I Can Do, If You Refuse To Hear Me: The Practice of Being Present In Conversations (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: @No Label Farms- Purgatory Pre-Roll Recently, I have had people listen to me talk but not hear me, or they look at me...
Ash Rae
Jul 20, 20243 min read


Pants Are Bullshit: Embracing Authentic Connections & Meeting People Where They Are (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Fire's Blueberry OG preroll 🔥🔥 I made it a goal to write once a week, then life happened, leading to writer's block....
Ash Rae
Jul 13, 20245 min read


Finding Ways To Stay Resilient Through the Chaos: Life Lessons From "Under The Tuscan Sun" Movie
Flavor of the Day: Terp Stix Infused Pre-Roll Honey Spoiler Alerts: This article may contain some spoilers, so if you haven't seen the...
Ash Rae
Jul 6, 20246 min read


Summer Must-Read: '40 is the New F-Word' – A Bold Collaboration with Mandi Shelly
Flavor of the Day: Watermelon Martini It's a lovely summer day as I pull into Bonefish Grill in Richland, Washington & see strutting in...
Ash Rae
Jun 29, 202417 min read


Getting Lit After a Failed Firepit: A Heartfelt Letter to My Babes 🔥💌
Flavor of the Day: Super Silver Haze To my babes, You all are my girls, my women, my Beautiful ladies I wish you could see you the way I...
Ash Rae
Jun 15, 20242 min read


Summer Buzz: Beautiful Disaster Lit's Top 5 Cannabis-Infused Summer Sips In The PNW
Looking for a refreshing way to beat the heat this summer while catching a buzz without the booze? Look no further! We've rounded up the...
Ash Rae
Jun 7, 20243 min read


Beautiful Disaster Lit's 200th Article!!!!! Reflections of A Blogger (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Lavender Scout Master Music Vibes: Two Weeks- FKA twigs Psst.... It's my birthday on Monday! I write today amazed that...
Ash Rae
Jun 1, 20244 min read


I Want To Be Seen, But I Want To Be Invisible. Thoughts On Being Brave (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Simply Blazed's Drty Whte Girl pre roll This saying was something I read on my Pattern App, suggested to me by my new...
Ash Rae
May 27, 20244 min read


So My New Neighbor Might Have Seen My Butt: Pivoting to RV Life
Flavor of the Day: Blueberry Squirt I have always enjoyed having all of my windows open on most decent weathered days. I love the idea of...
Ash Rae
May 20, 20244 min read


Artist Collaboration: Cabin7 Originals
Flavor of the Day: Juicy Joints' Seattle Berry pre-roll BDL NOTE- From the very first time I've seen a Cabin7 Original picture, I fell in...
Ash Rae
May 13, 20247 min read
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