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Master the Art of Laughing at Yourself (And Owning Your Mistakes)
Canna Flavor of the Day: Seattle's Private Reserve Gusherz pre-roll Music Vibes: Cher on Pandora Radio Not too long ago, I was hanging...
Ash Rae
Feb 23 min read
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You Wanted Me Until I Started Loving Myself: The Year I Choose Me
Canna Flavor of the Day: Plaid Jacket's Ethiopian Sky Cuddler pre-roll Let's talk New Year resolutions. I know it's late, but life has...
Ash Rae
Jan 264 min read
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I'm Done Beating Myself Up Over What I'm Not: Breaking Free From The Judgment of Others (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Vapor's Apricot Cart Music Vibes: Michael Jackson's Man in the Mirror I vow to break free from worrying about the...
Ash Rae
Oct 26, 20244 min read
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Love Yourself The Way Your Best Friend Loves You (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Homegrown Girl Scout Cookies Has someone ever hurt you so much that no matter what they do, nothing can rectify...
Ash Rae
Oct 19, 20244 min read
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The "Yes" Revolution: Saying "Yes" To Yourself
Flavor of the Day: Brand's Melon Gum Vape Cartridge (2024 Northwest Leaf Bowl Winner) These past four years, I have spent a lot of time...
Ash Rae
Oct 5, 20246 min read
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Don't Mismanage Your Time, Energy, or Vagina: Escaping Your Trauma (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Inflorescence Turpee Slurpee pre-roll I've been an absent writer, and today I'm on a roll, so I'm guna fucking just...
Ash Rae
Sep 14, 20245 min read
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The Narcissist’s Smoke Screen: Recognizing Manipulative Behavior (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: BlueCity Diesel by Raw. Side note: This article was written during the shittiest "relationship", (if you can call it...
Ash Rae
Sep 7, 20245 min read
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Don't Give Me Your Heart, I'm Not Good With Those: Spotting Relationship Red Flags (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Oregon Diesel by Phat Panda If you do something for someone and throw it in their face later, you're not a nice...
Ash Rae
Aug 31, 20246 min read
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Sometimes Clothes Hurt, So I Stay Naked- Life With Fibromyalgia Thus Far (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Stone Age's Alien Spacecraft pre roll Music Vibes: Low-Nerv Living with chronic pain is a life of trying to do what...
Ash Rae
Aug 10, 20244 min read
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Are You Going To Make Excuses Or Are You Going To Make It Happen? (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Champagne Showerz pre roll by Silver Leaf Cannabis Co. Women have this innate urge to look at another woman & find...
Ash Rae
Aug 3, 20243 min read
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There's Nothing I Can Do, If You Refuse To Hear Me: The Practice of Being Present In Conversations (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: @No Label Farms- Purgatory Pre-Roll Recently, I have had people listen to me talk but not hear me, or they look at me...
Ash Rae
Jul 20, 20243 min read
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Pants Are Bullshit: Embracing Authentic Connections & Meeting People Where They Are (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Fire's Blueberry OG preroll 🔥🔥 I made it a goal to write once a week, then life happened, leading to writer's block....
Ash Rae
Jul 13, 20245 min read
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Finding Ways To Stay Resilient Through the Chaos: Life Lessons From "Under The Tuscan Sun" Movie
Flavor of the Day: Terp Stix Infused Pre-Roll Honey Spoiler Alerts: This article may contain some spoilers, so if you haven't seen the...
Ash Rae
Jul 6, 20246 min read
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Summer Must-Read: '40 is the New F-Word' – A Bold Collaboration with Mandi Shelly
Flavor of the Day: Watermelon Martini It's a lovely summer day as I pull into Bonefish Grill in Richland, Washington & see strutting in...
Ash Rae
Jun 29, 202417 min read
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Getting Lit After a Failed Firepit: A Heartfelt Letter to My Babes 🔥💌
Flavor of the Day: Super Silver Haze To my babes, You all are my girls, my women, my Beautiful ladies I wish you could see you the way I...
Ash Rae
Jun 15, 20242 min read
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Summer Buzz: Beautiful Disaster Lit's Top 5 Cannabis-Infused Summer Sips In The PNW
Looking for a refreshing way to beat the heat this summer while catching a buzz without the booze? Look no further! We've rounded up the...
Ash Rae
Jun 7, 20243 min read
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Beautiful Disaster Lit's 200th Article!!!!! Reflections of A Blogger (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Lavender Scout Master Music Vibes: Two Weeks- FKA twigs Psst.... It's my birthday on Monday! I write today amazed that...
Ash Rae
Jun 1, 20244 min read
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I Want To Be Seen, But I Want To Be Invisible. Thoughts On Being Brave (Revisited)
Flavor of the Day: Simply Blazed's Drty Whte Girl pre roll This saying was something I read on my Pattern App, suggested to me by my new...
Ash Rae
May 27, 20244 min read
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So My New Neighbor Might Have Seen My Butt: Pivoting to RV Life
Flavor of the Day: Blueberry Squirt I have always enjoyed having all of my windows open on most decent weathered days. I love the idea of...
Ash Rae
May 20, 20244 min read
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Artist Collaboration: Cabin7 Originals
Flavor of the Day: Juicy Joints' Seattle Berry pre-roll BDL NOTE- From the very first time I've seen a Cabin7 Original picture, I fell in...
Ash Rae
May 13, 20247 min read
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