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The World is a Dumpster Fire: Focus on What You Can Control
Y'all, the world is a dumpster fire. Everyone has lost their goddamn minds. War, soaring prices on fucking everything, job scarcity, food scarcity, homelessness, protests, counter-protests, counter-counter-counter protests, AI taking over, POP MUSIC, drug and alcohol abuse, domestic violence, and on and on and on… It's enough to drive us collectively, Stanley Kowalski-style, to our knees crying in heartbreaking anguish, "STELLA!!!" Sexy Marlon Brando in a wet, ripped t-shirt
Willow Williams
Apr 235 min read


True Crime, Weed, & Leggings: Making Consent Matter in a Hookup Culture
Canna Flavor of the Day: Homegrown Blue Dream in a joint. Music Vibes: I'm Good-Jelly Roll I finally got to enjoy a thunderstorm & sat outside until thunder cracked just above my head. I jumped so high I nearly fell out of my chair. I yelled at OM to follow & I was out! I have way too many trees to sit outside when the storm is that close—I’m not trying to be the Wicked Witch of the East. I’ll keep my evil, witchy ways, but I don’t need a house taking me out so someone can
Ash Rae
Apr 124 min read


Life's Too Short, So Make Sure The Dick Isn't: Overcoming Life's Shortcomings (Revisited)
Canna Flavor of the Day: Loud- Acai Gelly Music Vibes: Ghostface-Drayce Music Take that however you will. Just don't go cry in a corner. Overcoming life's shortcomings isn’t about perfection — it’s about showing up, learning, & moving forward no matter what hits you along the way. I'm having trouble feeling inspired today. (Funnily enough, when I revisit this article to edit & repost, I am in the same kind of funk.) Maybe smoking some Acai Gelly from Loud will help me. It's
Ash Rae
Mar 155 min read


The Dorito Goddess Is Looking Down On Me: Appreciating The Little Things (Revisited)
Canna Flavor of the Day: Wicked's Jerry Berry's Hash joints. Music Vibes: Stupid by Tate McRae So this week has been a different one — starting training to be a sexual assault advocate & hearing tough stories, attending a hearing for a brave young lady & her mother, dealing with fibro pain (which is pretty consistent now), & Daughter & I binge-watching the final season of Lucifer. I 've made sure to have the house packed with snacks in the hopes of keeping both of us vampir
Ash Rae
Mar 84 min read


The Green Monster: My New Relationship with Jealousy
Join Willow as she explores her new relationship with jealousy and how it transformed her perspective. Discover insights and tips on taming the Green Monster today!
Willow Williams
Feb 125 min read


Social Etiquette: My Chronic Case of Foot in Mouth
If you've had a conversation or two with me, you know I can be blunt, sarcastic, fiery, and often have the mouth of a sailor. Conversely, I can be witty, charming, have an above-average vocabulary, and can find a pun or play-on-words in almost anything. I wish there were a happy medium, but I tend to violently swing either one way or the other. shrug There is nothing wrong with either side of my conversational personalities. There's a time and place for either sassy Willow or
Willow Williams
Jan 225 min read


Light Us A Blunt & Tell Me About Your Dark Side: A Raw Conversation About Trust & Self-Growth (Revisited)
Canna Flavor of the Day: Honey Stixx-Dark Rainbows X Blackberry infused pre-roll Music Vibes: Love Bites (So Do I)-Halestorm I love the unexpected conversations that turn deep, where a person trusts you enough to tell you their soul. It's an absolute honor to be someone's confidant & I don't take it lightly. It’s hard for me to trust people, so when someone entrusts me with their truth, I guard that trust fiercely. I've had friends, ex-boyfriends, co-workers, and old bosses
Ash Rae
Jan 114 min read


Do It Anyway: Breaking Free from Fear & Living Life to Its Fullest
Flavor of the Day: Oowee's Strawberry Gelato cartridge Music Vibes: Fight Song- Rachel Platten Living life as an anxious overthinker, I have been too worried about my outer appearance or how other people perceive me. I can admit that my vanity, at times, has more to do with being self-conscious than it does with being vain. I want my outward appearance to fully camouflage the fact that I don't have it together & I am a mess on the inside. Ironically, the days I wear the most
Ash Rae
Jan 48 min read


You Wanted Me Until I Started Loving Myself: The Year I Choose Me
Canna Flavor of the Day: Plaid Jacket's Ethiopian Sky Cuddler pre-roll Let's talk New Year resolutions. I know it's late, but life has...
Ash Rae
Jan 26, 20254 min read
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