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I Used To Be Invisible To You, Now You Cum To My Pictures: Self-Worth & Body Confidence for Women (Revisited)
Canna Flavor of the Day: Regulator Guava Gelato Sugar Wax Music Vibes: According To You- Orianthi Hiding my body has always been normal for me. I wore things to hide my assets—oversized hoodies I could shrink into, baggy clothing so men wouldn’t think I was an easy target, or so women wouldn’t think I was showing off to their husbands. The more I could hide, the safer I felt. Learning body confidence for women isn’t about becoming someone new—it’s about unlearning the sham
Ash Rae
Apr 194 min read


True Crime, Weed, & Leggings: Making Consent Matter in a Hookup Culture
Canna Flavor of the Day: Homegrown Blue Dream in a joint. Music Vibes: I'm Good-Jelly Roll I finally got to enjoy a thunderstorm & sat outside until thunder cracked just above my head. I jumped so high I nearly fell out of my chair. I yelled at OM to follow & I was out! I have way too many trees to sit outside when the storm is that close—I’m not trying to be the Wicked Witch of the East. I’ll keep my evil, witchy ways, but I don’t need a house taking me out so someone can
Ash Rae
Apr 124 min read


My Ass Is Too Big To Wear Thongs: Walking Away From Abusive Behavior Early (Revisited)
Canna Flavor of the Day: Mama J's Grape Train Rosin Music Vibes: Boys Will Be Boys- Dua Lupa Trigger Warning: This may be a hard read for those who have encountered trauma with dating. It pisses me off to see a victim blaming themselves for someone violating them & crossing a boundary. YOU'RE NOT IN THE WRONG. THE PIECE OF SHIT THAT DIDN'T RESPECT YOUR SPACE IS. Brave.... A word used by others to describe me many times & each is a pleasant surprise. I don’t feel brave, or
Ash Rae
Mar 295 min read


Lonely Roads and Luminous Moments: A Journey of Finding Light In The Loneliness (Revisited)
Canna Flavor of the Day: Inflorescense Post Melon pre-roll Music Vibes: Granite- Sleep Token Somebody, please take my credit card from me. I am not responsible enough to have money in card form, especially when I try using it to cope lol. I usually love the holidays, but I'm also always anxiously awaiting their passing. Seasonal depression is a thing for me every year. I have been feeling a bit lonely lately. (It's worse now that Daughter is out of the house & it's literall
Ash Rae
Mar 227 min read


Life's Too Short, So Make Sure The Dick Isn't: Overcoming Life's Shortcomings (Revisited)
Canna Flavor of the Day: Loud- Acai Gelly Music Vibes: Ghostface-Drayce Music Take that however you will. Just don't go cry in a corner. Overcoming life's shortcomings isn’t about perfection — it’s about showing up, learning, & moving forward no matter what hits you along the way. I'm having trouble feeling inspired today. (Funnily enough, when I revisit this article to edit & repost, I am in the same kind of funk.) Maybe smoking some Acai Gelly from Loud will help me. It's
Ash Rae
Mar 155 min read


Support Your Local Girl Gang: Finding the Beauty Within Yourself Through a Boudoir Lens (Revisited)
Canna Flavor of the Day: Stingers Frankenstein infused pre-roll Music Vibes: Unstoppable-Sia Before I go any further, I want to acknowledge that M is no longer in the boudoir business. I’ve personally spoken with women who felt hurt or wronged by their experience, and I don’t minimize or dismiss those stories in any way. I truly hope for healing and resolution for everyone involved. What I’m sharing here is my experience — one that was empowering, healing, and deeply impa
Ash Rae
Jan 257 min read


Wear The Heels, But Bring the Flats: Building Self-Confidence Through a Boudoir Photoshoot (Revisited)
Canna Flavor of the Day: Treehaus Demon Slayer disposable Music Vibes: Ready For Myself- Nelly Furtado Doing a boudoir photoshoot with the right photographer—even if it’s just for yourself—is a huge self-love move. It was for me, at least. One of my biggest “Do It Anyway” power moves, especially after being with someone who tried to dismantle my self-worth piece by piece. This boudoir photoshoot self-confidence journey was about trusting myself, even when fear was louder t
Ash Rae
Jan 188 min read
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