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I Used To Be Invisible To You, Now You Cum To My Pictures: Self-Worth & Body Confidence for Women (Revisited)
Canna Flavor of the Day: Regulator Guava Gelato Sugar Wax Music Vibes: According To You- Orianthi Hiding my body has always been normal for me. I wore things to hide my assets—oversized hoodies I could shrink into, baggy clothing so men wouldn’t think I was an easy target, or so women wouldn’t think I was showing off to their husbands. The more I could hide, the safer I felt. Learning body confidence for women isn’t about becoming someone new—it’s about unlearning the sham
Ash Rae
Apr 194 min read


True Crime, Weed, & Leggings: Making Consent Matter in a Hookup Culture
Canna Flavor of the Day: Homegrown Blue Dream in a joint. Music Vibes: I'm Good-Jelly Roll I finally got to enjoy a thunderstorm & sat outside until thunder cracked just above my head. I jumped so high I nearly fell out of my chair. I yelled at OM to follow & I was out! I have way too many trees to sit outside when the storm is that close—I’m not trying to be the Wicked Witch of the East. I’ll keep my evil, witchy ways, but I don’t need a house taking me out so someone can
Ash Rae
Apr 124 min read


Without My Cookies, I’m Just A Monster: Finding Self-Worth Without a Mirror (Revisited)
Canna Flavor of the Day: Plume's Creamy Pushpop Hash Rosin Music Vibes: Drive- The Cars Guna brave our local torture chamber, Badger Mountain, with a dear friend tonight. It's not really a mountain, but it's a steep fuckin' hill that many gather around to willingly DIE.... A slow, excruciating death by… (seriously wtf are we thinking??)… climbing this steep ass hill, turn after turn, only to realize you’re not even close to the end—you’ve still got more UP to go! You keep
Ash Rae
Apr 55 min read


My Ass Is Too Big To Wear Thongs: Walking Away From Abusive Behavior Early (Revisited)
Canna Flavor of the Day: Mama J's Grape Train Rosin Music Vibes: Boys Will Be Boys- Dua Lupa Trigger Warning: This may be a hard read for those who have encountered trauma with dating. It pisses me off to see a victim blaming themselves for someone violating them & crossing a boundary. YOU'RE NOT IN THE WRONG. THE PIECE OF SHIT THAT DIDN'T RESPECT YOUR SPACE IS. Brave.... A word used by others to describe me many times & each is a pleasant surprise. I don’t feel brave, or
Ash Rae
Mar 295 min read


His Kiss Tastes Like Whiskey & Cigarettes: Reclaiming My Power (Revisited)
Canna Flavor of the Day: Blinker Bar Grape Disposable The other day I was having bad anxiety and I realized that I started playing...
Ash Rae
Feb 23, 20254 min read


You Wanted Me Until I Started Loving Myself: The Year I Choose Me
Canna Flavor of the Day: Plaid Jacket's Ethiopian Sky Cuddler pre-roll Let's talk New Year resolutions. I know it's late, but life has...
Ash Rae
Jan 26, 20254 min read
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